Unit 83 · Pronouns and determiners
a friend of mine / my own house / on my own / by myself
Study
We say ‘(a friend) of mine/yours/his/hers/ours/theirs’.
A friend of mine = one of my friends:
I’m going to a wedding on Saturday. A friend of mine is getting married. (not a friend of me)
We went on holiday with some friends of ours. (not some friends of us)
Harry had an argument with a neighbour of his.
It was a good idea of yours to go to the cinema.
In the same way we say ‘(a friend) of my sister’s / (a friend) of Tom’s’ etc. :
That woman over there is a friend of my sister’s. (= one of my sister’s friends)
It was a good idea of Tom’s to go to the cinema.
We say my own / your own / her own … etc. :
my own house your own car her own room
(not an own house, an own car etc.)
my own … / your own … etc. = something that is only mine/yours, not shared or borrowed:
I don’t want to share a room with anybody. I want my own room.
Vicky and Gary would like to have their own house.
It’s a shame that the apartment hasn’t got its own parking space.
It’s my own fault that I have no money. I buy too many things I don’t need.
Why do you want to borrow my car? Why don’t you use your own? (= your own car)
You can also say ‘a room of my own’, ‘a house of your own’, ‘problems of his own’ etc. :
I’d like to have a room of my own.
He won’t be able to help you with your problems. He has too many problems of his own.
He cuts his own hair.
We also use own to say that we do something ourselves instead of somebody else doing it for us. For example:
Paul usually cuts his own hair. (= he cuts it himself)
I’d like to have a garden so that I could grow my own vegetables. (= grow them myself instead of buying them from shops)
On my own and by myself both mean ‘alone’. So you can say:
| on | my / your | his / her / its | our / their | own |
| or | by | myself / yourself (singular) | himself / herself / itself | ourselves / yourselves (plural) / themselves |
I like living on my own. or I like living by myself.
Some people prefer to live on their own. or … live by themselves.
Jack was sitting on his own in a corner of the cafe. or Jack was sitting by himself …
Did you go on holiday on your own? or Did you go on holiday by yourself?
Exercises (6)
Change the underlined words and use the structure … of mine/yours etc.
- 1I’m meeting one of my friends tonight.I’m meeting a friend of mine tonight.example
- 2We met one of your relatives.
- 3Jason borrowed one of my books.
- 4I met Lisa and some of her friends.
- 5We had dinner with one of our neighbours.
- 6I went on holiday with two of my friends.
- 7I met one of Amy’s friends at the party.
- 8It’s always been one of my ambitions to travel round the world.
Complete the sentences using my own / our own etc. + the following:
- 1I share a kitchen, but I have my own .example
- 2Gary doesn’t think like me. He has his own .
- 3Julia doesn’t want to work for other people. She wants to start her own .
- 4In the test we had to read a story, and then write it in our own .
- 5We stayed at a luxury hotel by the sea. The hotel had its own .
Complete the sentences using my own / your own etc.
- 1Why do you need to borrow my car? Why don’t you use your own car? example
- 2How can you blame me? It’s not my own .
- 3She’s always using my ideas. Why can’t she use her own ?
- 4Please don’t worry about my problems. I’m sure you have your own .
- 5I can’t make his decisions for him. He has to make his own .
Complete the sentences using my own / your own etc. Use the verbs in brackets.
- 1Paul never goes to a barber. He cuts his own hair. (cut) example
- 2Helen doesn’t often buy clothes. She likes to make her own . (make)
- 3I’m not going to clean your shoes. You can clean your own . (clean)
- 4We don’t often buy bread. We usually bake our own . (bake)
- 5Jack and Joe are singers. They sing songs written by other people, but they also write their own . (write)
Complete the sentences using my own / your own etc. or myself/yourself etc.
- 1Did you go on holiday on your own? example
- 2The box was too heavy for me to lift by .
- 3We had no help decorating the apartment. We did it completely on our .
- 4Very young children should not go swimming by .
- 5‘Who was Tom with when you saw him?’ ‘Nobody. He was by .’
- 6I don’t like strawberries with cream. I like them on their .
- 7Do you like working with other people or do you prefer working by ?
- 8I went out with Sally because she didn’t want to go out on her .
Are these sentences OK? Correct them where necessary.
- 1Katherine would like to have the own house.Katherine would like to have her own house.example
- 2Sam and Chris are colleagues of me.
- 3I was scared. I didn’t want to go out by my own.
- 4In my last job I had own office.
- 5He must be lonely. He’s always with himself.
- 6My parents have gone away with some friends of them.
- 7Are there any countries that produce all own food?