Unit 82 · Pronouns and determiners
myself/yourself/themselves etc.
Study
Steve introduced himself to the other guests.
We use myself/yourself/himself etc. (reflexive pronouns) when the subject and object are the same:
| Steve | introduced | himself |
| subject | object |
The reflexive pronouns are:
| singular (-self) | myself | yourself (one person) | himself/herself/itself |
| plural (-selves) | ourselves | yourselves (more than one) | themselves |
I don't want you to pay for me. I'll pay for myself. (not I'll pay for me)
Amy had a great holiday. She really enjoyed herself.
Do you talk to yourself sometimes? (said to one person)
If you want more to eat, help yourselves. (said to more than one person)
Compare:
Lisa introduced me to the other guests.
I introduced myself to the other guests.
We do not use myself etc. after feel/relax/concentrate/meet:
I feel nervous. I can't relax.
You need to concentrate. (not concentrate yourself)
What time shall we meet tomorrow?
Normally we do not use myself etc. after wash/shave/dress:
He got up, washed, shaved and dressed. (not washed himself etc.)
You can also say get dressed (He got dressed).
Compare -selves and each other:
Kate and Joe stood in front of the mirror and looked at themselves. (= Kate and Joe together looked at Kate and Joe)
Kate looked at Joe, and Joe looked at Kate. They looked at each other.
You can use one another instead of each other:
How long have you and Ben known each other? or … known one another?
Sue and Alice don't like each other. or … don't like one another.
Do they live near each other? or … near one another?
We also use myself/yourself etc. in another way. For example:
'Who repaired your bike?' 'I repaired it myself.'
I repaired it myself = I repaired it, not another person. Here, myself is used to emphasise 'I' (= it makes it stronger). Some more examples:
I'm not going to do your work for you. You can do it yourself. (= you, not me)
Let's paint the house ourselves. It will be much cheaper.
The film itself wasn't very good, but I loved the music.
I don't think Lisa will get the job she applied for. Lisa doesn't think so herself. or Lisa herself doesn't think so.
→ get dressed / get married etc. ➜ Unit 44D · by myself / by yourself etc. ➜ Unit 83D
Exercises (5)
Complete the sentences using myself/yourself etc. + these verbs (in the correct form):
- 1Steve to the other guests at the party.example
- 2Ben fell down some steps, but fortunately he didn't .
- 3It isn't Sue's fault. She really shouldn't .
- 4Please try and understand how I feel. You have to in my position.
- 5The children had a great time at the beach. They really .
- 6Be careful! That pan is hot. Don't .
- 7Sometimes I can't say exactly what I mean. I wish I could better.
Put in myself/yourself/ourselves etc. or me/you/us etc.
- 1Amy had a great holiday. She enjoyed .example
- 2It's not my fault. You can't blame .
- 3What I did was really bad. I'm ashamed of .
- 4We have a problem. I hope you can help .
- 5'Can I take another biscuit?' 'Of course. Help !'
- 6I want you to meet Sarah. I'll introduce to her.
- 7Don't worry about us. We can take care of .
- 8Don't worry about the children. I'll take care of .
- 9I gave them a key to our house so that they could let in.
Complete these sentences. Use myself/yourself etc. where necessary. Choose from:
- 1Neil grew a beard because he was fed up with .example
- 2Amy had a great holiday. She herself.example
- 3I wasn't very well yesterday, but I much better today.
- 4I climbed out of the swimming pool and with a towel.
- 5I tried to study, but I couldn't .
- 6If somebody attacks you, you have the right to .
- 7I'm going out with Chris this evening. We're at 7.30.
- 8You're always rushing. Why don't you sit down and ?
Complete the sentences with ourselves/themselves or each other.
- 1How long have you and Ben known ?example
- 2If people work too hard, they can make ill.
- 3I need you and you need me. We need .
- 4In Britain friends often give presents at Christmas.
- 5Some people are selfish. They only think of .
- 6Tracy and I don't see very often these days.
- 7We couldn't get back into the house. We had locked out.
- 8They've had an argument. Now they're not speaking to .
- 9We'd never met before, so we to .
Complete the sentences using myself/yourself etc. Use the verb in brackets.
- 1'Who repaired the bike for you?' 'Nobody. I it .' (repair)example
- 2I didn't buy this cake from a shop. I it . (make)
- 3'Who told you Laura was going away?' 'Laura .' (tell)
- 4I don't know what they're going to do. I don't think they . (know)
- 5'Who cuts Paul's hair for him?' 'Nobody. He .' (cut)
- 6'Can you phone Sam for me?' 'Why can't you ?' (do)