Unit 59 · -ing and to …
prefer and would rather
Study
When you say what you prefer in general, you can use prefer to … or prefer -ing:
I don't like cities. I prefer to live in the country. or I prefer living in the country.
You can say:
| prefer something | to something else | |
| prefer doing something | to doing something else | rather than (doing) something else |
| prefer to do something | rather than (do) something else |
I prefer this coat to the other one.
I prefer driving to travelling by train. or
I prefer driving rather than travelling by train.
I prefer to drive rather than travel by train.
Sarah prefers to live in the country rather than in a city.
We use would prefer to say what somebody wants in a specific situation (not in general):
'Would you prefer tea or coffee?' 'Coffee, please.'
We say 'would prefer to do something' (not usually would prefer doing):
'Shall we go by train?' 'I'd prefer to drive.' (= I would prefer …)
I'd prefer to stay at home tonight rather than go to the cinema.
I'd rather = I would rather. I'd rather do something = I'd prefer to do it.
We say I'd rather do (not to do). Compare:
'Shall we go by train?' 'I'd rather drive.' (not to drive)
'I'd prefer to drive.'
Which would you rather do, go to the cinema or go shopping?
Which would you prefer to do, go to the cinema or go shopping?
The negative is 'I'd rather not …' :
I'm tired. I'd rather not go out this evening, if you don't mind.
'Do you want to go out this evening?' 'I'd rather not.'
We say 'I'd rather do one thing than do another':
I'd rather stay at home tonight than go to the cinema.
We say 'I'd rather you did something' (not I'd rather you do):
'Who's going to drive, you or me?' 'I'd rather you drove.' (= I would prefer this)
'Jack says he'll repair your bike tomorrow, OK?' 'I'd rather he did it today.'
Are you going to tell Anna what happened, or would you rather I told her?
We use the past (drove, did etc.) here, but the meaning is present not past. Compare:
I'd rather make dinner now.
I'd rather you made dinner now. (not I'd rather you make)
I'd rather you didn't (do something) = I'd prefer you not to do it:
I'd rather you didn't tell anyone what I said.
'Shall I tell Anna what happened?' 'I'd rather you didn't.'
'Are you going to tell Anna what happened?' 'No. I'd rather she didn't know.'
would prefer ➜ Unit 58B · prefer (one thing) to (another) ➜ Unit 136D
Exercises (4)
Which do you prefer? Write sentences using 'I prefer (something) to (something else)'. Now rewrite sentences 3 and 4 using rather than:
- 1(driving / travelling by train) example
- 2(basketball / football)
- 3(going to the cinema / watching movies at home)
- 4(being very busy / having nothing to do)
- 5(1) example
- 6(3)
- 7(4)
Complete the sentences. Sometimes you need one word, sometimes more. Now use the same ideas to complete these sentences using than and rather than.
- 1Shall we walk home?I'd rather a taxi.example
- 2Do you want to eat now?I'd prefer till later.example
- 3Would you like to watch TV?I'd to listen to some music.
- 4Do you want to go to a restaurant?I'd rather at home.
- 5Let's go now.wait a few minutes.
- 6What about a game of tennis?I'd prefer for a swim.
- 7I think we should decide now.I'd think about it for a while.
- 8Would you like to sit down?I'd prefer to stand.
- 9Do you want me to come with you?I'd rather alone.
- 10(1)I'd rather get a taxi wait for a bus.example
- 11(3)I'd rather listen to some music watch TV.
- 12(4)I'd prefer to eat/stay at home go to a restaurant.
- 13(6)I'd rather go for a swim play tennis.
- 14(7)I'd prefer to think about it for a while decide now.
Complete the sentences using would you rather I … .
- 1Are you going to make dinner or ?example
- 2Are you going to pay the bill or ?
- 3Are you going to do the shopping or ?
- 4Are you going to phone Tina or ?
Use your own ideas (one or two words) to complete these sentences.
- 1'Shall I tell Anna what happened?''No, I'd rather she know.'example
- 2You can stay here if you want to, but I'd rather you with us.
- 3I don't like this programme. I'd rather not it.
- 4I'd rather work outdoors work in an office.
- 5This is a private matter. I'd rather you tell anybody else.
- 6The weather here isn't bad, but I'd rather it a little warmer.
- 7I don't want to go to the match. I'd prefer it on TV.
- 8'Do you mind if I open the window?''I'd rather you . I'm feeling cold.'
- 9I hate doing the shopping. I'd rather somebody else it.
- 10I'd prefer to go to the beach go shopping.